A few months ago I unintentionally hurt a good friend's feelings. At the time she was 7 months pregnant. Since then I have emailed her multiple times trying to explain myself. I have yet to hear from her. She had her baby in December and I never knew. I have yet to see a picture of her daughter and it makes me so sad. I thought after she had the baby, she would realize that my comments were not meant to hurt her, they were simply my own personal opinion. I believed that after she had the baby she would realize that it was meaningless to be mad at me, there would be more important things for her to concentrate on. I hate the fact that I cannot call her up and see how motherhood is treating her. She played such a vital role in my life when Catcher was born I just cannot believe that I cannot do the same for her. To have a friends stop being your friend after some bullshit makes one wonder, where we truly ever friends to begin with? I guess I will just have to wait it out and see. All I can do know is wish her and her new family all the love and light there is throughout the universe.
1.22.2007
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Sorry to hear about your friendship. I know it sucks. I've been going through something similar with (actually) quite a few people whom I considered friends, and now am wondering daily why it seems I'm the only one who cares about it all. It's good of you to still have well-wishes for your friend. Hang in there. You'll get some sort of a sign soon enough.
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